2019 August

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26 Aug: Willow’s Cousin Luna

Willow’s Cousin Luna by Dr. Rick Robinson My friend and colleague, Will Henson, beautifully described the attunement and connection process in his wonderful blog, My Friend Willow.  He relays to us the importance of our nonverbal presence and how we can signal safety to another being with the tone of our voice, pace of our movements, facial expressions, and body posture. And critically, when Willow is allowed to approach people at her own pace she has a much better chance to successfully manage feelings of threat. It turns out that, in a coincidence far to big to ignore, I too have learned a lot from a little white rescue dog.  Luna was feral during her puppyhood, and the spunk and…

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05 Aug: My Friend Willow

My Friend Willow by Dr. Will Henson My friend Willow came and visited our house last week. Willow is a little white dog and she’s a rescue. I don’t know what happened to Willow but she certainly has plenty of signs of trauma. She is afraid of new people, especially men. She growls when unknown people come too close. But it’s pretty easy to win Willow over. In fact, what I find is that most people intuitively know how to work with her as long as I tell them she’s had trauma. Once they get that she’s had a difficult past, they move slower, talk softer, and allow Willow to approach them. I think all this is made easier because…